Yay or Nay: Weddings on the 4th of July & Halloween

As we wrap up the peak of wedding season and arrive at fall, we land on one of the dates many couples shy away from: Halloween. We also just passed July 4th, another “taboo” date that often gets skipped. Weddings already bring a lot of questions, and choosing the date might seem like a no-brainer, but in reality there’s so much more to consider. Are family and friends available? Can people travel easily? What do flights and hotels cost that weekend? All of these things matter when picking your wedding day. And here’s why I think both the 4th of July and Halloween can actually be great dates.

The 4th of July carries its own magic. Guests often have the day off, summer evenings are beautiful, and nothing says celebration like a sparkler send-off or fireworks in the sky. It’s festive and memorable, but it can still feel elevated rather than themed. Instead of leaning into red, white, and blue, couples can choose neutrals with subtle details that nod to the holiday. The only real challenge is the heat, but with shaded spaces, fans, or an evening ceremony, that can be handled with ease.

Halloween weddings are less common, but they can be so much fun. If you love moody florals, candlelight, and a dramatic vibe, October 31st is a perfect fit. It’s unique, unforgettable, and a great option for couples who want something a little different. And if you want to lean into the holiday, it’s the ultimate excuse for a non-traditional celebration. Think outside the white dress, or even consider a creative dress code for guests. Play with décor and cocktails — smoky drinks, themed bites, or moody late-night snacks. It doesn’t have to be spooky or kitschy; it can still be classy and refined. With Belle Âme’s in-house catering, we could even create festive menus that nod to the holiday — from traditional 4th of July favorites to elegant Halloween-inspired dishes.

So while many people look at holiday weddings as a “nay,” for the right couple, they’re definitely a “yay.” At the end of the day, your wedding date should reflect you. Whether it’s under the summer fireworks or surrounded by autumn candlelight, what matters most is celebrating the love you’re building, not the calendar date it falls on.

Vineyard Couple

Beautiful Drink Display

Blushing Couple

And here’s a little secret — at Belle Âme, we actually offer special promotions for holiday dates like the 4th of July and Halloween. That means not only do you get a unique, unforgettable wedding day, but you might also lock it in with extra perks. If you’ve been waiting for a sign, this might just be your chance.

Reach out to us today to learn more and let’s start planning a wedding as extraordinary as your love story.